Valentine’s Day: the stories behind the flowers (2024)

14 February 2023

Flowers are often at the centre of Valentine celebrations, but what's the stories behind the plants connected with this day of romance?

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By Dr Marco Pellegrini and James Whittaker

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Since the digitisation of Kew’s Herbarium and Fungarium collection began, we have piqued your interest in this ground-breaking project by using the various seasonal holidays as milestones.

So far, we have been haunted by the ghost orchids, had asweet taste of vanilla orchids, and welcomed you to Kew’s Fungarium.

With St. Valentine’s Day now upon us, here we’ll look at the stories behind some of the plants used to decorate this romantic holiday and how they are featured by our Science Collection Digitisation Project.

Everybody knows that plants (particularly flowers) are front and centre during Valentine’s Day celebrations, as both decorations and romantic gifts. However, few are aware of just how they fit into this celebration of romance.

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Bringer of Spring

The name of the occasion comes from Saint Valentine, a Christian saint who was beheaded and martyred in Rome on 14 February, 269 AD. That date was initially known as the Feast of St. Valentine. Due to its religious significance, various relics were placed in shrines across the Roman and later medieval Christian world, ostensibly linked to the saint in some way.

One of the most famous of these is the alleged skull of St. Valentine, which is still on display in Rome at the Basilica of Santa Maria. Displayed in a golden cabinet with a glass front, the skull is crowned with a garland, which is currently composed solely of artificial flowers.

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The flowers chosen to adorn the skull have traditionally included roses, daisies, carnations, and many other species that grow in Mediterranean meadows, such as bee orchids. Out of these flowers, orchids have been of great interest to Kew, being the focus of our annual Orchid Festival, as well as the first group to be digitised as part of our Digitisation Project.

St. Valentine is the patron saint of love, affianced couples, happy marriages, bees and beekeepers, mental illness, epilepsy, and against fainting and plagues. In Slovenia, St. Valentine is known as Zdravko and is considered one of the saints of Spring, also being the patron of beekeepers and pilgrims and the bringer of good health.

Proverbs and traditional culture place St. Valentine as the saint responsible for plant growth, making them bloom and announcing the arrival of Spring. The association between the date and flowers seems to root in these traditions.

Orchids of love

Besides adorning the skull of the eponymous saint, orchids have long been associated with the traditions of Valentine’s Day.

While Red Roses are a more recognisable Valentine’s gift, orchids have also featured prominently as floral romantic presents, as they are a traditional symbol of reverence, romance and lovers, going back to ancient times. Furthermore, orchids are praised for their complex and exotic-looking flowers, which seem to be a representation of the complexity of love.

For instance, the orchid genus Paphiopedilum owes its name to the Temple of Paphos, dedicated to the ancient Greek love goddess, Aphrodite. For this reason, the genus is commonly known as the Venus slipper orchid (Venus being the Roman name for Aphrodite).

Popular as a romantic bouquet gift as well as a house plant, Paphiopedilum features prominently in Kew’s living and Herbarium collections. The living orchid collection is currently on display as part of the Orchid Festival. On the other hand, the slipper orchids (including the Venus slippers) have already been digitised by our team.

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Valentine’s bees

As the patron of bees and beekeepers, St. Valentine is said to safeguard the sweetness of honey and the health of beehives. Bees are responsible for pollinating numerous plant species by carrying pollen grains from one flower to another while they collect nectar and other floral resources.

Pollination represents the link that directly connects St. Valentine, as the patron of bees, to flowers and Spring.

Bees play a vital role in ensuring that many flowers complete their life cycles and return yearly, producing gorgeous wildflower meadows.

Passionate palms

The other major collection we are currently digitising is Kew’s Palm Herbarium. While palms might not be mainstream associated with Valentine’s Day, they have been rarely associated with fertility.

Lodoicea maldivica, more commonly known as the coco de mer, is one of the most intriguing palms to be found in the world. Aside from collecting an astounding number of records among plants and other palms due to their size, the seeds from this palm are also locally known as love nuts.

This palm was discovered in 1743 when seeds were found stranded on Maldivian beaches. After a long journey by sea from the Seychelles, these seeds would arrive lacking their husk, exposing their peculiar shape. The seeds resemble a woman’s hip area, sparking wild histories and tales of how the yet unknown palm trees reproduced.

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To make things even weirder, coco de mer is one of the few species of palms with separate male and female plants. The inflorescences of the male palm trees also present a rather phallic shape, giving rise to the legends that the trees made passionate love on stormy nights.

The legend goes on to say that the male trees uproot themselves and approach female trees. Apparently, the love-making trees were said to be rather shy, and whoever sees the trees mating will die or go blind. The fact that, to date, the pollination of the coco de mer is not fully understood continues to fuel this legend.

What’s love got to do with it?

Now that the connection between plants and St. Valentine’s Day has been clarified, let’s look at how it relates to our Digitisation Project. The process of imaging and transcribing specimens to make them available online – aka digitisation –serves a plethora of purposes. Perhaps the most important of these is that it can serve as a vital tool in preventing the extinction of plants and fungi, but also all the animals that rely on them for their existence.

The digitisation of both the orchids and palm collections allows our team to contemplate the natural world and how we are playing a part in helping preserve it.Here we’ve shown not only the cultural and religious importance of plants but also how we rely on them to survive.

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The digitisation of our palm collection has posed a particular challenge due to these plants’ size and bulkiness. The specimens are especially complicated to arrange, taking around four timeslongerto image than a typical orchid specimen. So, producing these palm images really represents a labour of love.

Our Digitisation Officers have been working tirelessly to ensure the world is not only able to access these specimens but can also use them to preserve the planet we live on.

So, whether you go for a classic rose or perhaps push the boat out with a palm, just bear in mind the story behind the plant you offer your loved one this Valentine’s and remember that you’re playing a part in this tradition’s long floral history.

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Valentine’s Day: the stories behind the flowers (2024)

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Valentine’s Day: the stories behind the flowers? ›

Valentine's Day Flowers and Their Symbolism:

What is the history of the flowers on Valentine's day? ›

The flowers connection to Valentine's Day harkens back to the 19th century, when Victorians used floral bouquets to deliver a message to love interests. This system is called "floriography" and officially solidified the red rose's romantic status, says Kate Greenway, author of The Language of Flowers.

What do the flowers symbolize for Valentine's day? ›

While a red rose is known to symbolize true love, the bloom is available in other colors that convey various meanings. White roses convey purity and everlasting love, yellow symbolize friendship, pink symbolize elegance, and lavender symbolize love at first sight, says Tina Merola of Blooms by the Box.

What is the real story behind Valentines day? ›

Saint Valentine was discovered and imprisoned in a torture-ridden Roman jail, where he fell in love with a mysterious girl (believed to be his prosecutor's daughter). He sent her a love letter signed 'from your Valentine' right before his execution, thus originating the romantic sign-off still widely used today.

Why are flowers given on Valentine's day? ›

It is a day to express love and affection for romantic partners, family members, and friends. The tradition of giving flowers on Valentine's Day is thought to have originated in the 18th century, when the language of flowers became popular as a means of expressing emotions.

What do roses symbolize on Valentine's day? ›

Nothing says “I love you” like red roses. Red symbolizes love, beauty, courage, respect, romance, and even congratulations. For generations, red roses and other scarlet-colored blooms have captured the hearts of lovers everywhere. Red is the color of passion, desire, and respect.

Why does rose symbolize love? ›

Among the Greeks and Romans

According to mythology, Aphrodite's beauty was so great that roses sprang up wherever she walked. As a result, red roses became a symbol of love and desire, and were often used in romantic gestures and rituals. Red roses were also associated with Adonis, the Greek god of beauty and desire.

What is the official flower of Valentine's Day? ›

As with many other Valentine's Day icons, the red rose can be traced back to the goddesses of love, Aphrodite and Venus. According to Greek mythology, roses grew from the ground sprinkled with Aphrodite's tears that merged with the blood of her lover, Adonis, who died in her arms.

What flowers should not be given on Valentine's Day? ›

Banned from the festival of love: bad choices for Valentine's day bouquet
  • Yarrow. The colorful perennial Achillea is a common plant in flower shops in winter. ...
  • Basil and balsam. ...
  • Carnations. ...
  • Daffodils. ...
  • Cyclamens. ...
  • Hyacinths. ...
  • Lilies.

What is the deeper meaning of Valentine's day? ›

My mother's family was Catholic, and at the end of the 5th century, Pope Gelasius declared February 14 St. Valentine's Day. Saint Valentine's Day was a feast day in the Catholic religion, added to the liturgical calendar around 500 AD. The day was commemorated for martyred saints named Valentine.

What does the Bible say about Valentine's day? ›

1 John 4:7-12. Dear friends: let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.

What is the actual point of Valentine's day? ›

It originated as a Christian feast day honoring a martyr named Valentine, and through later folk traditions it has also become a significant cultural, religious and commercial celebration of romance and love in many regions of the world.

What is the history of flowers on Valentine's Day? ›

It's believed that the rose is a favorite flower of Venus, the Goddess of Love, as it is symbolic for strong, intense, and loving feelings. As such, lovers began giving flowers to those they cared about to convey their deep affection for one another.

Why do girls want flowers for Valentine's Day? ›

Flowers remind her that you couldn't imagine life without her and show her how important she is to you. Arriving with a bouquet of flowers is a wonderful way to show her that you think about her when she's not around. She deserves to feel special and important, and flowers are a perfect way to send the message.

What does 14 red roses mean? ›

14 Roses – if you're proud of someone, 14 roses is the number to choose. 15 Roses – if you've done something to upset someone and wish for forgiveness, opt for 15 roses. 16 Roses – say 'Bon Voyage' with 16 roses.

Why are there 12 roses on Valentine's day? ›

12 roses: A bouquet of 12 roses is a romantic way to express your love. The number 12 is often associated with completeness and perfection, and is a way to show the person you care about that they are the one and only person in your life.

What is the official flower of Valentine's day? ›

As with many other Valentine's Day icons, the red rose can be traced back to the goddesses of love, Aphrodite and Venus. According to Greek mythology, roses grew from the ground sprinkled with Aphrodite's tears that merged with the blood of her lover, Adonis, who died in her arms.

What is the history of giving flowers? ›

The earliest dates of gifting flowers go back to the time of Ancient Egyptians, Greeks, and the Roman Empire. These three societies often used flowers in religious traditions. They based their personal use of flowers on their beliefs. The Greeks used them as props for storytelling.

Why do girls want flowers for Valentine's day? ›

Flowers remind her that you couldn't imagine life without her and show her how important she is to you. Arriving with a bouquet of flowers is a wonderful way to show her that you think about her when she's not around. She deserves to feel special and important, and flowers are a perfect way to send the message.

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