Can you believe Valentine's Day is shortly upon us? And is it just me or is finding the perfect Valentine’s Day gift for your boyfriend or husband or even your situationship (if he deserves it) super stressful? V-Day presents need to be a balance of sweet and thoughtful and romantic without being too cheesy or over the top (especially if your relationship is new!). Luckily, we rounded up 63 Valentine’s Day gifts for guys, below, that he’ll love no matter the stage of your relationship.
If things are still fresh and you’ve been together for only a matter of weeks, a gift that you can use together or a little sweet treat is always a safe bet! Or, if you’re dropping the L-word, then we have plenty of romantic and sentimental gift ideas too.
So keep reading if ya wanna show your man how much you care about him in the form of presents this Valentine’s Day. FYI: You don't have much longer to put your orders in if you want to get them to him before the holiday!!
If It’s Your First V-Day Together
The first of anything in a new relationship is super fun and exciting. Your first date, your first sleepover, your first vacation, the list goes on! And the first Valentine’s Day together is def one worth making a big deal of. If you’ve never celebrated V-Day before and you want to make it as perf as possible, have no fear. Something simple and useful like this room diffuser is an unfailing gift. You also can’t go wrong with a relaxing self-care tool, a nice leather accessory, or a new gadget—and we found the best ones out there for ya.
But because your first Valentine’s Day together can fall anywhere between a few days after you started seeing each other to almost an entire year of dating, you might want a few more time-specific gift ideas. Say no more!
To break it down even further, We’ve gathered a few more gift suggestions for relationships under three months, six months, nine months, a year, and two years or longer, so keep scrolling.
If you have no idea what to get because it’s your first V-Day, go with one of these:
If You’ve Been Together Less Than 3 Months
Think classic and simple when you’re at this early stage. You’re gonna want to get him something thoughtful (that he'll actually use!) without being too forward. In other words, it’s okay to keep your V-Day present simple and flirty, like with this candle. Not only is it a super fresh scent that will keep his space smelling amazing, but the melted wax also doubles as a little extra ~excitement~ in the bedroom. Plus, it wouldn’t be Valentine’s Day without some romance!
For a few other foolproof gift ideas, a Coors hat that screams cool, some self-care eye patches, a bottle of his favorite hot honey, a pair of sneaks, or any of the other thoughtful choices, below.
If it’s only been a minute but you still wanna make him feel all special, go for these:
If You’ve Been Together 6 Months
Now that y’all have been at it for half a year, you can loosen up a bit. Your dinner dates are no longer make-or-break, and let’s be honest, you’re probs more into low-key hangouts at this point. You’re comfortable enough to make inside jokes, and you’ve got a good grasp on what he likes and secretly dislikes, so use it to your shopping advantage. And FYI: You can never go wrong with a solid pair of headphones. Six months in, you probably know that he loves music or needs some new earbuds for his commutes or the gym.
This is also the perfect time to get him a practical gift, such as a laptop case or a grooming kit. And since you now know what his style is (or where it has room for some improvement), you can pick out something to add to his wardrobe.
If your love is still kinda new but not, like, that new, shop these gifts:
If You’ve Been Together 9 Months
You never need to spend a lot of money on a gift, but if you’ve been wanting to spoil him with something special, the day of lurve is a good excuse to spend a *little* more than you have before. And now that you know what he likes to smell like, a fragrance is a classic gift idea. Treat him to a new scent, like this musky one from Byredo. (Life hack: It’s like a gift for you too, because he will be smelling sooo good.)
If you guys have been saying the L-word, a gift like a mini projector is sure to level up all your date nights. And now that you know what his daily routine is like, a sunrise alarm clock or smart coffee mug is sure to please.
If you’re starting to feel like this whole thing you’ve got might last, consider the below:
If You’ve Been Together 1 Year
Aw you guys have hit the one-year mark, congrats! Chances are you’ve already given him a handful of presents for other occasions and you might want to get him a special gift. By now, you probably feel more secure in your relationship and comfortable spending some $$$ on him (because he deserves it!). If his wallet could use an upgrade, let us introduce you to this sleek card case from Gucci. It’s timeless, thoughtful, and luxe without being too over-the-top (we love a subtle flex!).
For other gift ideas if you feel like splurging on your man, consider an LED face mask or a nice suitcase for his next getaway (maybe with you *hint hint*).
If you've been together for a year and wanna treat him, we love these:
If You’ve Been Together 2 Years or Longer
Okay, you’ve probably used up every gift idea under the sun by now after all the birthdays, holidays, and anniversaries. But Valentine’s Day is still a perfectly good excuse to celebrate another year of being together. You know him better than anyone else, but if you’re struggling to come up with a present, we gotchu. Get him a cool kitchen gadget like this automatic cocktail maker. It’s like a coffee machine but for his (and your) favorite drinks!
And a few years in is never a bad time to get him something to make his life *a little* easier. A customized notebook for all his to-dos is super helpful, or perhaps a KitchenAid Mixer if he loves to wear the chef’s hat in the relationship.
If you've been together a looong time, check out some of these:
Megan Uy
Associate Shopping Editor
Megan Uy is an associate shopping editor at Cosmopolitan, where she searches for the best products in all things fashion, home, beauty, sex, gifts, and more, so you don’t have to. When she’s not writing for the site, she’s whipping up some cool and trendy content for the fashion section of the print magazine. She’s been with the brand since 2019 (when she was an itty-bitty editorial fellow), and she's also written for Delish, House Beautiful, and People. Follow her on Instagram to get some BTS of the editor life and chaotic NYC content. Also, feel free to hit her up if you ever wanna discuss the madness that is TikTok.
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